Tuesday, July 27, 2010

PENCERAIAN-PILIHAN ATAU KETERPAKSAAN?

Saya terpanggil utk menulis entry ini bukanlah kerana saje mencari tajuk panas utk menarik trafik, tetapi cuma ingin berkongsi cerita dan rasa.

hari ini, 15nisfu Syaaban, genaplah dua tahun saya melangkah ke alam rumahtangga..mase nak kawen dulu mcm2 pikir,betul ke pilihan aku? dah sedia ke? ckup ke duit nanti? tp bila selalu sgt dengar org cakap pahala solat org kawen adalah 27x ganda drpd org bujang, sy yakin, saya membuat keputusan yg betul. sy ingin berkahwin kerana ingin mendapat keberkatan dlm hidup, inginkan zuriat dr perkahwinan yg sah dan suci,ingin mengikut sunnah nabi dan juga sebab sy suka sgt masak..kalu xder anak n suami, saper nak makan sy masak kan...hehe....

kemudian sy mula sedar kenapa 27x ganda pahala solat...rupanya perkahwinan adalah penuh dgn ranjau duri,melihat beberapa perkahwinan kawan2 dan sedara2 n kawan atas kawan di sekeliling yg telah berkecai dilanda pelbagai dugaan...mmg sgt menakutkan..kadang2 terpk, skrg sy menyambut 2nd anniversary, adkah anniversary lain akan datang? panjang kah umur kami? panjangkah jodoh?

saya pernah ada kawan yg suaminya meninggal pd usia 27thn, mereka ada 2 anak lelaki, n lebih menyedihkan, dia mengandung 2 bln semasa arwah pergi,dan anak itu adalah anak perempuan yg diidam2kan arwah....entahlah...itu yg bercerai mati, yg bercerai hidup pulak ada lg mcm2 cerita...

tp, dalam mejalani hidup, kita perlu byk bersabar n redha menerima segala ketentuan, sesungguhnya syurga Allah itu tidak dtg dgn percuma. ada harga yg perlu dibayar....dan juga jgn sesekali menghakimi org lain, krn kita tidak tahu apa sebenarnya yg terjadi...sometimes things are wayyyy complicated than what we think..
jd jika terdengar apa2, ucapkanlah nauzubillahiminzalik...
semoga kita semua berbahgia n boleh sambut anniversary selagi kita bernafas...

Saturday, July 24, 2010

Backpacking di Ireland

Malam2 duk layan blog gini teringat pulak kenangan 2006...

Disember 2005, sy graduated..mase tuh balik kg x tau nak wat ape..bosan sgt2..nk cari kerje malas lg..of coz after 5years struggling for my mechanical engineering degree, plus i mmg full scholarship tok jd lect poli..so i decided to sit back n relax..tp lame2 sangap jugak....then ade member tanya nak ke gi Ireland about half a year jd baby sitter for her sis..i thought, bile lg kan..karang dah keje, duit nak guna nak kawen,beli kete,tanah,umah,pendek kate, no chance at all ler..tak tau ler kalu dah tua nanti jadi kayer pulak kan....then, there goes my journey...

I naik flight dr KLIA ke London on 16th January 2006...from there i transit 4 jam waitig for my flight to Dublin..owh..sguh penat after 13hrs to Heathrow..then sampai ler i ke Dublin..then naik lagi kete about 2 hr ke Waterford..sebuah bandar tepi laut yg sgt indah..huhuu....bermulalah tugasku sebagai bibik vogue...haha..tak caye tgk gambar i..hehe...
ni baby yg i jaga, dh besar pon..dh ade adik pon..
bos i yg kecik molek paling kiri, tgh pegang anak pompuan dia..dgn sedara diorng

Anak majikan i 2 org, the older 1 was 3thn n an infant,2 months old..yg kakak 3 thn ni comel sgt..tp dia tak reti cakap melayu..so i pon blaja ler speaking dr dia, hari2 practice speaking n parenthing skill..my boss mmg syg i sebab i pandai masaK(ceh...puji diri sendiri)...lgpon my boss Dr. Farah tu setekak dgn i, suka yg pedas, n masam...so hari2 i masak ler..laksa penang, kerabu perut, rosak buah(buat sendiri tau,nanti i tulis resepi dia)....n mcm2 lg, maklum ler sejuk..lapar jer..begitulah hidup i,jaga budak, kemas umah, masak...dan sebelum pulang..this lovely couple gave me a trip i'll never forget...percutian 3 hari dua mlm ke Galway n i was bagpackers jer..best sgt,merantau sorg2...
me, at the back was Littleman's Bridge
me at Cliff Of Moher

Falah makan sayur?




Mase nak wat blog ni dulu, my hubby n i penin pk nak tulis about what,last2 my hubby bgtau just tulis everything that u'r good at, like cooking...but beware, jgn smpi blog u wat org menyampah, ade unsur riak dan sebagainya..so i wrote about cooking n i think that i can write about parenting as well....just to share with others, kalu ade yg xkena boleh tegur...



so, about my son..Ahmad Falah Akbar B Mohamad Fadhil..1 thun 24 hr..kesahnya anak2 ni mcm biase lah suka sgt kacau kite tak kire masa, kadang2 tgh makan, he doesnt wanna sit on his high chair while we're having our dinner or lunch, so sekali tu he was whining looking for attention, i pulak lapar sgt so i geram i just give him a stick of fresh salery...dia makan mcm tu jer...OMG..then the other time i bg lak dia a slice oc cucumber, pun dia makan, buah2 jgn cerita ler...i happy sgt sebab so far dia mmg xpnah ade masalah sembelih, rashes..dia boleh makan apa sahaja,pakai apa shj, n duk mane saje, mmg easy to manage si kecik nih...

i'm not sure lah about something..doc said that baby should start their first solid food at 6months..but at 2months lebih my mom ade suap pisang rebus, nak ajar perut katenyer..then at 3months old, i suap dia durian...n start from that moment, he ate just about everything i gave him...maybe some parent out there is not agree with my method but kadang2 org tua kita punya petua boleh pakai jugak..bila kita lasakkan anak..anak akan lasak..tp kenalah berpada2...so far, i train falah makan sayur since 6month mmg berhasil sebab dia boleh kunyah carrot, salery n cucumber just like that, sambil jalan2 dlm rumah jer.....

Friday, July 23, 2010

org melabur dpt bunga...sy melabur dpt durian..aaa?

Sempena musim durian rasenya sy pun xnak lepas dr cakap perihal durian apetah lg sy mmg penggemar raja buah itu...thaun lepas mase musim durian sy sedang berpantang slps melhirkan anak pertama, tertekan jer tgk org pakat makan durian apatah lg durian di kebun bapa sy dikampung sgt menjadi. Tetapi tahun ini, beli saje nampaknya..dia cuti da..

Alkisahnya awal thun ini sy ada membeli sebidang tanah 6700kp dekat kelantan...saje nak melabur, tanah tu kire lot banglo, tp sebab sy rs ia berada di lokasi yg bagus, so beli lah dulu drpd sy membazir bli benda lain, n tadaa...tanah tu ada pokok durian 2 pohon yg sgt besar....disebabkan tanah itu bukan di kampug mak atau ayah saya,(nk gi 15minit naik kete),n sy lak kt ipoh, so mmg xpnah dh gi jenguk...




ptg td mak sy menelefon bgtau dia tergerak hati nak gi tgh tanah sy n dia sguh xcited sebab sgt byk buah durian n siap dah kena amik kt org pon, mgkin org x tau tanah tu dh bertuan, so mngkin esok pg2 mak n ayah sy akan pergi menebas sambil mengutip durian...

sebagai pelabur, owh...sy sguh happy..pelaburan sy membuahkan hasil yg berduri2..tu belum kire nilai hartanah tuh lepas masjid, perumahan, n rumah kedai disebelah n didepan tanah sy siap hujung tahun ini. sedangkan sedara sy beli lot yg sama luas, xder durian, sebelah lot saya ,3 minggu slps sy, harganya dah tambah lagi 5k..inikan pulak lagi 1 thun,akhirnya sy dpt buktikan pelaburan sy tidak sia2 apekala masa beli tanah tuh sedara2,even mak sy pun x berape setuju sebab katenya sy belum stabil, kete kecik, tiap2 bulan berjimat, kesian katenya..dahlah baru kerje, baru kawen,baru dpt anak..tp berkat kesabaran sy naik kete kecik n memasak setiap hari sy mmeg blh berjimat........jd marilah memasak..hehe...

Monday, July 19, 2010

takkan nak masak jer...jom layan Single Ladies

This is a special tribute to my BFF, Za Azmi and Suri...i'm sure u'r gonna love this...enjoy!!

Friday, July 16, 2010

Resepi Sup Sayur



Bahan-bahannya :

Bahan A:tumis
bawang putih-titik(ketuk)
bawang merah-mayang nipis2
daging ayam dipotong dadu
tambaha: sosej, isi ketam, fishball -suka hati
lada hitam kisar(tumbuk)
lada sulah
garam
gula (no MSG-jgn guna Ajinomoto)

Cara-cara:

tumis bahan A, masukkan air, tunggu mendidih, masukkan sayur kubis, karrot, sawi, bunga kubis dan tomato.

P/s :
1.saya tidak meletakkan kuantiti bahan2 kerana ia bergantung kepada selera dan kuantiti yg anda mahu-lagipon resepi ni senang sgt.
2. bagi yg tak tau nak letak air byk mana(sebab ni yg penting, terlebih air mmg tak sedap) sukat air dgn mangkuk yg anda nak guna, kalu agak2 nak dua mangkuk, masukkan air 1 mangkuk setengah,sebab bila dah campur bahan lain dia jadi lebih dua mangkuk..

Tuesday, July 13, 2010

BEZA SLOW COOKER N RICE COOKER

Ada beberapa org rakan ofis sy bertanya mcm mane nak buat bubur dgn cepat, mudah n lazat. sy jawab ler,'alah..pakai jer slow cooker, mmg lembut n gebu'
then diorng tanya 'slow cooker mcm ner?'
ooo..rupa2nya ada yg masih konfius..so di sini sy terangkan sedikit..

SLOW COOKER
- utk yg sama saiz n jenama dgn rice cooker, dia murah sket..
- utk masak bubur, sup tulang, sup daging yg liat, kire ape yg sup ler
- periuk dia adalah dr bhan seramik n x boleh masak atas 'direct fire'
- memerlukan masa yg sgt lama tok masak, kalu nak wat bubur anak tu, sebelum tido, masak ler, pagi boleh isi dlm tupperware tok anak bwk bekal kt umah pengasuh atau nursery..so tak payah anak makan kt nursery, xder ler risiko tercekik sebab kita ibu mesti ler wat yg the best kan, tp kalu dia nak tercekik benda lain tu, Allah punya kuasa la..kita ikhtiar jer...

rice cooker
- harga mahal sket jer dr slow cooker
- masak nasi ler..tp kalu zaman duk hostel kt u dulu, siap boleh goreng cekodok, jd terpulang lah kpd kreativiti anda untuk memanfaatkan rice cooker anda..

sekian terima kasih...hehe

Saturday, July 10, 2010

Resepi Roti Pita Simple



as a career mom, sometimes we just have a very limited stock of raw ingredients by the end of the week.so got no idea what to cook? thinking of going out for dinner? what a hassle..with kids around, got to go out, be prepared, waiting for food, no guarantee that its going to be nice, n costly...

so here's a simple recipe for a perfect dinner for a weekdays' nite..



ingredient A:

1)sosej or chicken breast-nicely chopped
2)cabbage-also nicely chopped
3)carrot-grated(parut)-betul ke hinggerish aku nih (belasah ler yer, karang nk tulis bm sepenuhnye my international fren x paham lak)
4)onion-thinly sliced
5) cooking oil or olive oil (depend on your budget)
6) ready made pita bread

for finishing touch :
salsa sauce or chili sauce or tomato ketchup -depend
mayonise or thousand island- depend

the steps are:
-heat the pita bread on a pan-put aside
-heat 3 tablespoon of cooking oil
-stir fry the onion until brown, put the chopped sosej n stir for about 2 mins. done
-put the sosej into the pita bread, put the vege, u can sprinkle a bit of grated cheese if u want
-seasoning with the mayonise and salsa sauce

p/s :if u want to add another kind of vege, then go ahead, suit yourself, dont be afraid..remember...peoples invented , we innovate...that's the way i cook..

Friday, July 9, 2010

Resepi Nasi Kerabu


yg ni i saje nak tunjuk, most of us knew how to cook this, so segan ler nak bagi resepi, kalau ade yg minta baru i bagi jer..i update balik post ni..for now, enjoy..
jamu mata..

Resepi Phat Phet Ayam


hye there...
first of all i believe that most of us love fried chicken. it taste good n easy to cook..but some of us are too bz even to fry this chicken esp for a career mum. so here's the tip, everytime u cook fried chicken, cook more than usualy. n put the leftover in the frigde. the next day u can cook a thai food named phat phet chicken.

phat phet in thai word means, masak merah but of course with the touch of siamese style.. the ingredients are :

ingredient A

1) 2 sticks of lemon grass(serai)
2) 3 lime leaves (daun limau purut)
3) 1 tablespoons tumeric powder (serbuk kunyit)
4) 1 tablespoons red chili paste (cili kering kisar)
5) 3 garlic (bawang putih)- chopped
6) 1 big onion (bawang besar)- thinly sliced

ingredient B

fried chiken (chopped into cubes )
vege- cauliflower n carrots

the steps are :

heat 4 tablespoons of cooking oil or olive oil, then put ingredient A altogether, hive a nice gentle stir, when the onion looked tender, put ingredient B altogether..put half cup of plain water, stir around for about 2mins n leave for about 5 mins. then, it's done.

time of preparation : less then 15mins
serve with a cup of rice n omelet or telur mate kerbau..hehe..

happy cooking...

Falah N mom's BFF


living my life: my new look "updating my blog with falah around, quite challenging, he keep touching everything, nak kena bli meja study ler ni. but i still manage handl..."

ni pic falah n her mummy nida when she went to kelantan..

Sunday, July 4, 2010

i want to be a tv...pinjam yer suri..

ESSAY FROM A CHILD A teacher from Primary School asks her students to write a essay about what they would like God to do for them... At the end of the day while marking the essays, she read one that made her very emotional. Her husband, that had just walked in saw her crying and asked her: - What happened? She answered - Read this. It's one of my students essays Oh God, tonight I ask you something very special: Make me into a television.

 I want to take its place. Live like the TV in my house. Have my own special place, And have my family around ME. To be taken seriously when I talk.... I want to be the centre of attention and be heard without interruptions or questions. I want to receive the same special care that the TV receives when it is not working. Have the company of my dad when he arrives home from work, even when he is tired. And I want my mom to want me when she is sad and upset, instead of ignoring me

And... I want my brothers to fight to be with me... I want to feel that family just leaves everything aside, every now and then, just to spend some time with me. And last but not least make it that I can make them all happy and entertain them... Lord I don't ask you for much... I just want to live like every TV At that moment the husband said: - 'My God, poor kid. What horrible parents! She looked up at him and said: - 'That essay is our son's !

owh...aku sungguh insaf membace cerita ini...bagaimana dgn anda? to mommy lyna, jgn hafiy tulis essay i want to be a laptop sudah...hehe